To get the
full picture on addiction we have to look, not only at the ways in which it is
bad for us, but also the way that substances provide something that is lacking
in our lives. Something that family or society has been unable to provide, for
whatever reasons.
We can
consider addiction as the act of constantly seeking something outside ourselves to curb an
insatiable yearning for relief or fulfillment. The aching emptiness is
perpetual because the substances, objects or pursuits we hope will soothe it are
not what we really need, although they did work for a while and gave temporary relief.
Addiction
is a dysfunctional way of attempting to escape from disconnection and an
overwhelming feeling of fear and despair. Manifesting in a variety of shapes
and forms, shopaholics, workaholics, gambling, internet, all are to a lesser or
greater degree on the same continuum of dysfunctional lifestyles and an attempt
to soothe something that is inside with something from the outside. It’s a form
of self-harming and a failed attempt at taking back control, not dissimilar to
the way an anorexic believes that the only thing they have control over in
their life is the food that they ingest.
Some people
are prepared to risk their lives for a brief moment of fulfilled life and a
sense of connection to something.
The basis
of all addiction lies in the central nervous system and neurochemicals known as
neurotransmitters and their corresponding receptors. Although the Central
nervous system and neurotransmitters exist, they do not exist in isolation and
it’s essential for any real, in-depth understanding of addiction that we take
into account the person in their entirety, that is to say in a holistic manner.
The physiology of someone’s brain does not develop in isolation of an emotional
and social context. On the contrary, it is very much influenced by and influences
on the social and the emotional.
The false
promise that substance or behaviour will make all the planets line up and
everything will somehow fall into place makes them the false prophet of a
distress free life. It would be wrong to label addictive behaviours as just a
bad habit or a lack of willpower and falls short of understanding that all
addiction is functional.
All
addiction has its origins in emotional pain, whether conscious or unconscious.
Powerful narcotics such as Heroin and Cocaine are anaesthetics and are
extremely good at relieving pain.
A high
percentage of people who engage in addictive behaviours have suffered trauma in
childhood, although not all. Trauma is not a requirement for engaging in
destructive behaviours, but in my clinical experience, there has been hurt, be
it through a particular parenting style that cannot be called abuse, or through
a deep-rooted feeling of disconnection with loved ones or the world. One thing
that advances in neuropsychology show us is that stress through adversity in
childhood has an enormous effect on the physiology of the central nervous
system.
But its not
just childhood trauma that creates an aching hole in our soul. The way society
is constructed in a Neo-liberal market is enough to make my Conservative grandfather
turn in his grave.
Modern
market culture promotes a feeling of emptiness as we all strive to be the best
we can. The fabricated Facebook shopfront of other people’s lives and successes
can leave us reflecting on our own failures.
We all feel emptiness; dissatisfaction and frustration in an ever-globalizing
world, but many of us have found tactics for keeping them at bay through
distraction, be it through professional success, riches, sex, substances or
addictive behaviour. But I know through personal experience that the moment
this distraction stops, a void of emptiness can open up before us producing a
continual white noise of anxiety buzzing away in the background that gets louder
and louder as the years go by.
Drugs can
offer relief to the lost and you only have to look at the way indigenous communities
have dealt with the destruction of their way of life. When the glue of society’s
fabric fails, substances are always there to step up the challenge.
It is not a
coincidence that drug abuse is on the rise. In 2016, 20 million Americans
suffered from a substance disorder, with 2 million addicted to opiates. The
social fabric that held societies together is being ripped apart. The Market
demands that we are a mobile, fluid workforce, uprooted and disconnected from
society and from any ideology that may interfere with the globalised market
forces, such as a sense of community, patriotism or religion. Certainty in the
job market no longer exists making planning for the future a source of anxiety
and worry.
Modern day
addiction is neither a disease or a moral failure, it is a maladaptive means of
survival. One where the drug user tries to buffer himself from a feeling of complete
disconnection from society. It is a form of adaption that is never going to
work and one can never feel whole through drug use, which will not only affect
the health of the drug user, but also leave them feeling hollow, empty and
craving for more.
Traditional
drug care has always been based on the individual, but without a caring, inclusive
and egalitarian society, recovery will always be against the odds.
I totally agree to you. One should have a very strong support system coming from family and friend.]
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Thank you Jada
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