In my last thread I talked very briefly about how our
Emotions serve three basic functions, one of them being a self protection
warning system against possible threats. Fear, anxiety, anger, rage and hatred are all
naturally occurring emotions that due to the way they have evolved are very
easily activated.
Our minds are
continually scanning for possible threats, even when we’re sleeping. We’ve all
woken up with a start in the middle of the night because we heard a bump or a
crash, and a mother is capable of hearing her child cry even though she is fast
asleep. Our self protection system is always activated, humming away in the
background and continually scanning for possible threats.
When it does
perceive a threatening situation, it automatically puts into motion our “fight
or flight” process as our body prepares itself to either run from the threat or
fight the threat, this creates changes in our body as our eyes dilate, blood
flow is redirected from our digestive system to the big muscle groups like the
biceps and quadriceps, not to mention the release of all number of hormones
that throw our body out of balance, but will save our lives in a dangerous
situation.
All this takes
place automatically without us being to able to do anything about it. Of course
how you feel about emotions will affect how you react to having them, but more
about that another day.
This process is automatic because it takes place deep
inside our primitive mid brain where the Amygdala is in charge of emotional
response. Information about a threatening external stimulus is transmitted
through what is known as the ventral circuit, which is quick and automatic and
completely bypasses the prefrontal cortex where reasoning is carried out.
This has its
benefits, as a slower more reflexive warning system would not have had much
success in the evolution stakes. A warning system that needs to reflect and
ponder would have been a disaster for survival. Imagine if you had to spend
five minutes thinking about what to do when faced with a charging rhino, you or
your genes wouldn’t have much of a future.
Our self
protection warning system has evolved to be quick and without thinking. It is
designed to protect us and is not afraid to over exaggerate a threatening
situation in order to “save us”. It will frequently make mistakes, preferring
to make us run away from 9 unreal threats and go without dinner than make one
fatal mistake and become the dinner of some predator.
Of course all is not sabre tooth tigers and packs of
hungry wolves. We humans are social creatures by nature and have to interact
with each other on a daily basis. Our minds tendency to over estimate danger is
also carried over to social situations, where we may see individuals or other
groups as a threat. This is a natural tendency and happens automatically and
our mind needs to be trained not to see everything and everyone as possible
threats, as this can affect our quality of life.
Sometimes we
have to overcome fear. There is a great Buddhist saying that “to overcome a
fear you have to face a fear”. This is a concept known to behavioural
therapists as exposure and is a technique often used for overcoming fears and
phobias. The idea being that you purposely expose yourself to your fears. In
this case the level of anxiety will steadily rise, but after about 10 minutes
will eventually start to drop.
Usually what we do when we feel threatened is to try
to avoid the source of the threat, be it snakes, spiders or public speaking.
The relief that we feel from avoiding the situation is known as a negative
reforcer, that is, I take action to get rid of emotions I don’t like. The next
time I feel the unpleasant emotion; there is a big possibility that I will
repeat the avoiding behaviour that served me well in the past.
The problem is
that the relief I feel from avoiding the threat may prevent me from hanging
around for a bit and realising that it wasn’t such a threat as my mind was
telling me it was. Often, to change the way we feel about something, first we
have to change our behaviour. As Chinese philosopher Laozi quoted “A journey of
a thousand miles begins with the first step”. It certainly doesn’t begin with
navel gazing, lamenting the past or worrying about the future. We can do that
on the journey.
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